Child development & trauma
Neurorelational frameworks (Bruce Perry) translated into practices your team can use on Monday morning.

Building flourishing, one safe space at a time.
Speaker · Educator · Neurorelational Consultant
Dr. Danielle Gettings is based in Washington State. She partners with ESDs, ECEAP, ESIT, McKinney-Vento teams, and community and advocacy organizations across the Pacific Northwest and Spanish-speaking communities to build trauma-informed spaces where staff, students, and families can regulate, grieve, and grow.
The work
Trauma-informed practice isn't a checklist. It's a way of being with people — curious instead of corrective, relational instead of reactive. Whether she's with a district leadership team, a group of ECEAP coordinators, or staff supporting McKinney-Vento students, every session is built around your community's realities.
Neurorelational frameworks (Bruce Perry) translated into practices your team can use on Monday morning.
Somatic and neuro-emotional regulation practices that help both children and the adults who hold them.
MTSS and tiered supports designed around relationships — not one more initiative to survive.
Naming compassion fatigue and vicarious trauma with honesty, dignity, and real pathways forward.

Meet Danielle
Educator, mental health professional, and speaker — bringing neurorelational frameworks, somatic regulation, and deep listening to the teams who carry hard things every day, in English and Spanish.
Read her storyIn their words
“Danielle is a skilled and effective consultant who navigates challenging situations and needs with grace, ease and sensitive attunement. Her consultees and colleagues value her sensitivity, helpful and supportive approach and her positive hopeful spirit.”
“Danielle is particularly experienced in responding to children, families and child care providers who are impacted by complex trauma, chronic stress and significant mental health concerns. She has been influential in promoting trauma informed practice throughout our system, skillfully providing extensive training for groups of providers, coaches and colleagues.”
“Danielle is a skilled trainer and facilitator, and has offered in-depth content to the field of early learning coaches and child care providers. She is a deep thinker, bright, capable, motivated and always brings an authentic and committed lens of racial equity and social justice to her work.”
“Her deep capacity to critically reflect allows her to notice and acknowledge her internal responses, facilitating respectful and compassionate interactions with clients and colleagues. Dr. Gettings contributes knowledge and wisdom from her academic studies and lived experiences to the learning community.”
“Dr. Gettings actively engages in systems analyses to interrogate contextual factors such as systems and organizational climate and culture — enriching understanding of her clients' and colleagues' experiences, relational interactions, and perspectives.”
“Whether leading professional development workshops, community dialogues, or team-building sessions, she consistently creates inclusive, engaging spaces where all participants — children and parents — feel heard, respected, and empowered to contribute. She is among the most effective and impactful trainers and facilitators I've encountered.”
“As a specialist in trauma informed practices and the epigenetics of brain development, I have seen first hand Danielle's focus on developing rapport and establishing trust. She has a keen eye for noticing others in times of need and is able to calm others in times of conflict or problem-solving.”
“Danielle has demonstrated a great skill for teaching adult learners and is adept at collaborating with teachers on improving instruction and building rapport with students. She took the lead on bringing the social/emotional learning movement to our district, developing Care Teams in each building and Teen Support Groups in our high school and alternative program.”
“Para nosotros fue algo nuevo y magnífico, gracias por tu tiempo, conocimientos y todo el trabajo en preparación de los materiales. Que el Señor te bendiga y te continúe usando para beneficiar a muchos y para su gloria.”
“Danielle is gifted at building relationships and creating a positive culture. That talent allowed her to connect with the teachers she supervised and help them achieve that same level of success in their own classrooms. She is an outstanding person, a successful teacher, and a talented instructional coach. I recommend her unconditionally.”
Speaking & training
Keynotes, PD days, multi-session series, and facilitated groups for ESDs, school districts, ECEAP, ESIT, McKinney-Vento teams, and community and advocacy organizations — in person or virtual, with bilingual-friendly materials available.
Visit the speaking hubComing soon
A trauma-informed, holistic, spiritually-grounded private practice and ceremonial wellness group offerings, opening as LMHC licensure is completed. The waitlist is open now.
Learn about the practice